The Glow Experience
From living on autopilot to finally feeling like yourself again
12-Week Private Coaching Experience for Black Women Ready to Move Beyond Survival Mode
Through the GLOW Method™, I help you move out of survival mode, release the patterns keeping you stuck, and start making decisions from self-trust instead of guilt, fear, or obligation.
Inside The GLOW Experience, we focus on four core areas of transformation:
G - Grace Over Grind
L - Love On Yourself
0 - Own Your Truth
W - Walk In Power
For the Black Woman Who's
Holding It All Together
While Quietly Falling Apart Inside
>> Your relationship feels like arguments on a loop
>> The connection just isn't there like it used to be.
>> You snap at your kids...
and spend the rest of the night feeling guilty about it.
>> You make good money...
but your paycheck is already spoken for.
>> The more you make...
the less time you actually have to enjoy it.
You've mastered showing up for everyone else.
Your kids. Your partner. Your responsibilities.
But behind the scenes?
You’re the one everyone depends on, and you’re tired in ways sleep doesn’t fix.
No matter how much you do, it still feels like it's never enough.
Somewhere along the way,
you stopped showing up as the real version of yourself.
Not in a way anyone else would notice.
From the outside, your life looks good.
But internally?
You've been moving through life,
as a version of you that learned how to perform.
Not one that actually feels like the true version of you.
You've gotten so used to being who everyone needs you to be, you don't even pause long enough to ask yourself what you need anymore.
And it's not like you haven't tried to change it.
You push through day after day, even when you're exhausted,
and know you don't really have it in you.
You tell yourself you just need to lock in.
Be more disciplined.
Be more consistent.
You start with good intentions…and then life starts life-ing,
and you find yourself right back in the same cycle.
Not because you're not capable.
Not because you're not trying hard enough.
What you've been living isn't just habit.
It's conditioning.
This way of living isn't sustainable.
At some point, pushing through stops working.
Your nervous system isn't designed to live in constant survival mode.
If you're ready to move out of survival mode, break the patterns that keep repeating, and release the beliefs that have been keeping you stuck...
The GLOW Experience was built for you.
In 12 weeks The GLOW Experience helps you:
Wake up feeling rejuvenated instead of exhausted before your day has even started
Show up for your family present and engaged, not mentally checked out
Reconnect with your partner and reclaim the spark that got buried underneath the stress, the chaotic schedules, and the distance that quietly grew between you
Break free from the golden handcuffs and start building a life, where your money allows you the freedom and flexibility you truly desire
And give yourself permission to pursue the life you've always known was meant for you, without the guilt, without the shrinking, and without abandoning yourself to keep the peace
The life you want isn't out of reach…
It just requires a version of you that you haven't fully stepped into yet.
You didn’t consciously decide that everyone else’s needs would come before your own.
That was never really a choice you got to make.
It was just the life that was already waiting for you.
The roles that were already assigned.
The expectations that were already written.
And somewhere in the middle of honoring all of it...
the household, the kids, the job, the relationships, the family, the faith...
you got used to being who everyone needed you to be.
And here's the part that often goes unspoken:
You look fine. Accomplished, even.
A lot of what you've been living wasn't even your choice.
The beliefs you carry.
The roles you perform.
The standards you hold yourself to.
Most of that was handed to you before you were even old enough to question it.
>>Your family.
>>Your church.
>>Your culture.
They all had a version of you already decided before you ever had a chance to figure out
who you actually were.
So you built a life.
You cheked the boxes.
You shored up.
But underneath that...
You’re already drained before the day even starts.
You spend plenty of time with your kids, but mentally you’re elsewhere.
Or you find yourself tuning out the noise just to manage the overwhelm.
Your relationship feels the strain,
even if it’s not always being said out loud.
The same tension.
The same conversations.
The same distance that’s hard to explain but easy to feel.
And then there’s your mind.
You start things with the goal of seeing it through...
and somehow it never works out that way.
Sometimes it’s distraction.
Sometimes it’s the fear of judgment.
Sometimes it’s second-guessing yourself before you even begin.
And then the overthinking kicks in.
You wonder
What are people going to think?
What are people going to say?
So now it’s not just exhausting… it’s frustrating.
Because you know how capable you are.
You know how you show up in other areas of your life.
But when it comes to this?
It never seems to stick.
And after a while, it starts to wear on you.
Why do I keep starting over?
What am I missing?
And even with everything you’ve built...
there’s still a part of you that knows this no longer aligns.
And that voice...
the one that knows what you need,
what you want,
what no longer fits,
it never went anywhere.
It just got buried under everything you’ve been carrying.
She’s still there, and she’s ready when you are.
If you've been hearing that voice...
I know exactly what that feels like.
The Woman Who Holds Everything Together Deserves Support Too
Being everything to everyone comes with a weight most people don’t see.
You’re always thinking ahead.
Adjusting.
The default fixer when something goes left.
Carrying more than you should have to,
mentally and emotionally.
And your body feels it too.
The tension.
The headaches.
The feeling of never really getting to fully relax.
And somewhere in the middle of all of that...
there’s a quiet thought that keeps coming back.
There has to be more than this.
That was me.
For years.
A work injury ended my career in law enforcement before I had planned.
In the years that followed, my mother suffered a sudden stroke and I found myself becoming her primary caretaker while still raising my own family.
Then came an ADHD diagnosis that finally gave language to patterns I had been carrying my entire life without fully understanding them.
But it was the combination of everything...
the injury,
the caregiving,
the diagnosis,
that forced me to be still in a way I never had before.
The kind that comes when life removes every excuse you had to keep going.
Not the kind of stillness that comes from rest.
And that stillness changed everything.
Because in the quiet…
I heard her.
That voice I had been drowning out for years.
The one underneath all the performing.
All the overgiving.
All the pushing through.
She had been there the whole time.
I had just never slowed down long enough to listen.
The healing wasn’t overnight.
But when it started, everything shifted.
And I realized I wasn’t the only woman carrying all of this.
So I created The GLOW Experience.
I created the GLOW Experience to give you the space to remember who you already are underneath.
Its time to look past everything you were taught
Its time to rethink every role you were handed
Its time to remove every mask you wore just to stay accepted in spaces that required you to be less of yourself.
Its time to GLOW.
WHAT IS THE GLOW EXPERIENCE?
The GLOW Experience is a private 12-week 1:1 coaching journey for the Black woman who is done pouring from an empty cup and ready to start choosing herself without apology.
Through these four core areas, I help you shift the patterns, beliefs, and survival habits that have kept you stuck.
GLOW METHOD
G — Grace Over Grind
Stop pushing, performing, and over-functioning long enough to create the safety your body needs to come out of survival mode.
L — Love On Yourself
Choose yourself with more compassion, stronger boundaries, and deeper self-care
instead of guilt and self-abandonment.
O — Own Your Truth
Question what you inherited, release what no longer fits, and reconnect with what is
actually true for you.
W — Walk In Power
Start making decisions from self-trust instead of fear, so your life reflects who you really are, not just who you were taught to be.
This is not a course.
This is not a group coaching program.
This is not a checklist or a quick fix.
This is a private, intimate space where the work goes as deep as you're willing to go...
where you're supported every step of the way by someone who has lived it.
You were never broken.
You were just never given permission to be anything other than strong.
Its time to stop talking yourself out of the life you actually want.
And instead of your entire life being built around:
obligation
pressure
expectations
survival
To start creating a life with more ease.
A life where you’re not constantly carrying,
pushing,
and holding everything together…
but actually getting to experience and enjoy your life too.
Are you ready to stop moving through life feeling guilty every time you:
rest
say no
choose yourself
do something that’s actually for you
Its time to trust yourself enough to make decisions without overthinking every step.
When You Join The GLOW Experience, this is what starts to shift…
You stop carrying everything on your shoulders.
You start setting boundaries in the areas where you’ve been running yourself ragged.
And you get comfortable saying no,
without overexplaining,
justifying, or drowning in guilt afterward.
You wake up without that same heaviness sitting in your body before the day even starts.
Your energy no longer feels completely drained before you’ve even gotten going.
You become more present with your kids.
Because you are actually there with them and not:
Not mentally checked out.
Not overstimulated.
Not constantly stuck in your head.
You stop automatically saying yes to everything and everyone...
at work,
at home,
and in your relationships...
And start choosing what you actually have the capacity for.
You stop biting your tongue just to keep the peace…
then replaying the conversation later wishing you had said what you really felt.
Your relationship starts feeling more open and honest…
because you're no longer:
shrinking
over-explaining
abandoning yourself just to be understood
Does this sound like you?
You have a lucrative career and a supportive family…
but your body is paying the price.
The long hours.
The chronic stress.
The lack of sleep.
The physical wear and tear.
You’re starting to question how much longer you can keep going the way you have.
You prioritize your well-being and make good money…
but your schedule leaves little room for connection, rest, or a real personal life.
You want love.
Community.
Depth.
But your life has become so demanding and unpredictable that relationships feel almost
impossible to maintain alongside everything else you carry.
You have the relationship.
You make time for yourself.
But deep down, you know you’ve outgrown where you are professionally.
Whether it’s expanding,
pivoting,
or building something new…
you feel the pull.
You just haven’t acted on it yet.
You’ve always been the high-achieving one…
but lately, what once felt “secure” no longer feels secure at all.
Especially with the shifts happening around federal employment and long-term stability.
And now?
You want:
more freedom
more options
more ownership over your time and your life
This experience is for you if:
You are open-minded and willing to question what you've always been taught
You are committed to doing the real work, even when it gets uncomfortable
You are ready to be honest with yourself without shame or self-judgment
You are open to nervous system work, somatic practices, introspection, and energy work as tools for lasting change
You are in a season of spiritual questioning or awakening and want a safe space to explore it
You want personalized support, not a one-size-fits-all program
You are ready to reclaim your time, energy, and attention without guilt
This Is NOT for You If…
You’re looking for a quick fix or expecting someone else to do the work for you
You say you want change, but you’re unwilling to examine the patterns keeping you stuck
You are unwilling to question inherited beliefs or long-held conditioning
You are looking for therapy rather than coaching and personal transformation support
You want to be coddled. I lead with compassion, but I will not avoid what needs to be named
You are unwilling to take ownership of your time, energy, and decisions
Everything in your life feels perfectly aligned already and you wouldn’t change a thing
Hey, I’m Essence Jordan.
Spiritual Embodiment Coach & Holy Fire Reiki II Practitioner.
I specialize in helping purpose-driven Black women release inherited conditioning and survival patterns so they can reconnect with who they are beneath the roles, expectations, and beliefs they've been taught to carry.
The result isn't becoming someone new.
It's finally having the freedom to trust yourself, honor your own needs, and a build a life that reflects your true desires instead of everyone else's expectations.
I’m not here to fix you. You were never broken.
I’m here to help you uncover who you actually are underneath everything you were taught to be.
FOUNDING MEMBER INVESTMENT
The GLOW Experience is a sacred investment in yourself.
This is not another cookie-cutter coaching program or a one-size-fits-all approach to healing.
I created The GLOW Method™ Framework from lived experience because I needed a space
like this myself, and nothing about what I was finding felt deep enough, nuanced enough,
or truly designed for women carrying what we carry.
Every part of this experience was intentionally created to help Black women:
>> break survival patterns
>> reconnect with their truth
>>trust themselves again
>>begin building lives that actually feel aligned with who they are
I only work with a small number of women at a time.
Because this level of transformation deserves:
real presence
real support
and real care
If this experience resonates with you…
the next step is simple.
Fill out the application below and we’ll connect to see whether The GLOW Experience is the right fit for where you are right now.
Frequently Asked Questions
No, and that distinction matters.
This is a private coaching space focused on helping you:
recognize patterns
question inherited beliefs
rebuild self-trust
and begin making decisions that actually reflect who you are
That shows up in real ways.
Like:
speaking up instead of biting your tongue
saying no without overexplaining
no longer feeling tension in your body every time something comes up
Therapy and coaching can absolutely work alongside each other, but this is not clinical treatment or diagnosis.
If you are currently working with a therapist, this work can be a powerful complement to that.
Awareness alone doesn’t always change the pattern.
Some of the women I’ve helped have:
read all the books
listened to all the podcasts
done years of self-work
…and still feel stuck.
This work helps you take what you already know and actually apply it.
In:
how you respond instead of overreact
how you rest without guilt
how you stop talking yourself out of things you want
how you show up differently in your relationships
If you still feel caught in the same cycles despite all the insight you’ve gained…
that’s exactly why this work exists.
You do not have to share my beliefs to work with me.
This is not about abandoning your faith or rejecting your spiritual roots.
It’s about creating space to question:
what feels fear-based
what feels shame-based
and what no longer feels honest in your body
That kind of clarity eventually affects:
what you tolerate
what you question
what you no longer feel obligated to carry just to keep the peace
Whatever your beliefs are right now…
we honor that and work from there.
That’s one of the most honest things you could feel.
Sometimes the fear isn’t just about staying stuck.
It’s about what shifts when you stop living by the rules that kept everyone else comfortable.
Your relationships may change.
The way you spend your time may change.
What you say yes to may change.
We move at the pace of your honesty and your capacity.
Nothing here is forced.
But the woman on the other side of this work is who you’ve always been.
She was just waiting for permission to finally show up.
If you’re tired of:
abandoning yourself to keep the peace
feeling drained before your day even starts
second-guessing your decisions
putting yourself on the back burner just to keep everything running
…and something inside you keeps whispering:
there has to be more than this…
you are ready enough to start.
You do not need to have everything figured out before you apply.
Showing up is the only requirement.
I hear you, and I want to be honest with you.
This is an investment in your personal transformation.
Not a luxury.
Not a nice-to-have.
An investment in shifting the patterns that keep you:
second-guessing yourself
overextending in relationships
feeling drained even when your life looks “fine” on paper
Because the cost of staying where you are doesn’t just show up in one place.
It shows up:
in your relationships
in your body
in the opportunities you keep putting off
in the life you know you’re meant for
Payment plans are available because investing in yourself shouldn’t be the thing that stops you.
If you’re ready to begin this next chapter of your life…
Fill out the application below and let’s connect to see whether this experience aligns
with where you are and where you know you’re meant to go.
Flexible payment plans are available.
Women who pay in full will also receive one additional month of private coaching support as a bonus.
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